By Sivasankar venkatakrishnan (oshovenkat)
In January 2021, our family’s life changed forever when my mother was diagnosed with cancer. What followed was a year of immense pain, resilience, and love. Despite the physical toll of the illness, she faced each day with a courage that left us in awe.
As we searched for treatments, we tried every avenue we could—modern medicine, alternative therapies, and even Ayurveda. Some treatments brought hope, while others, like Ayurveda, seemed to worsen her condition. Watching her health decline was heart-wrenching, but her unwavering spirit became our source of strength.
During her hardest days, my mother found comfort in Tamil philosophical movie songs. These songs became her sanctuary, their profound lyrics reminding her of life’s deeper truths. As she listened, you could see her finding peace, even in the midst of immense suffering. They were more than just music; they were her companions, guiding her through the storm.
By the end of 2021, it became clear that her journey was nearing its end. Remarkably, she faced death with acceptance and grace. “I am ready,” she said one day, her voice steady and calm. She had made her peace, not just with her illness, but with life itself. Her readiness to embrace the inevitable was a reflection of her inner strength and the deep wisdom she carried.
In December 2021, she left us. Her passing was both heartbreaking and inspiring. She taught us that life is not just about how long we live but about how deeply we connect, love, and accept what comes our way.
Her journey continues to guide me. Whenever I listen to Tamil philosophical songs, I feel her presence, her courage, and her wisdom. Though she is no longer here, her strength and love remain a part of me, a reminder that even in the face of loss, there is beauty in acceptance.
